Behavior & Classroom Management
The 2×10 Strategy — Relationship Tracker
An evidence-informed approach to building relationship with the most challenging child in your class — 2 minutes a day, 10 days, talking only about non-school topics. With a tracking sheet.
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Page count: 7. Print-ready PDF — letter / A4 friendly. Click image to see all pages.
Learning objective
Use a structured relationship-building approach to shift the dynamic with a child who finds school difficult.
About this resource
- Subject: Behavior & Classroom Management
- Type: Template
- Grade levels: Kindergarten (ages 4-6, ≈ Reception / Y1), Grade 1 (ages 6-7, ≈ Year 2), Grade 2 (ages 7-8, ≈ Year 3), Grade 3 (ages 8-9, ≈ Year 4), Grade 4 (ages 9-10, ≈ Year 5), Grade 5 (ages 10-11, ≈ Year 6), Grade 6 (ages 11-12, ≈ Year 7)
- Pages: 7
- Date added: 2026-09-03
- Credit: Qualified primary teacher
Books on building relationships with challenging pupils
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For teachers
- W When the Adults Change, Everything Changes — Paul Dix
- C Connect with Your Students — Rob Plevin
- I Inside I'm Hurting — Louise Bomber
- F Fanatically Formative: Successful Learning During the Crucial K-3 Years — Bob Sornson
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