Bereaved Children — What Helps in Primary
How children at primary age process death — and what teachers can actually do to support a bereaved child returning to school. Includes what to say, what to avoid, and how to plan ahead.
Preview
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Learning objective
Support bereaved children effectively in primary classroom contexts.
About this resource
- Subject: Trauma-Informed Practice
- Type: Fact File
- Grade levels: Kindergarten (ages 4-6, ≈ Reception / Y1), Grade 1 (ages 6-7, ≈ Year 2), Grade 2 (ages 7-8, ≈ Year 3), Grade 3 (ages 8-9, ≈ Year 4), Grade 4 (ages 9-10, ≈ Year 5), Grade 5 (ages 10-11, ≈ Year 6), Grade 6 (ages 11-12, ≈ Year 7)
- Pages: 8
- Date added: 2026-10-03
- Credit: Qualified primary teacher
Books on supporting bereaved children
Convenience links if you'd like to look any of these up. We've recommended these books in the resource above.
Picture books for bereaved children
- B Badger's Parting Gifts — Susan Varley
- T The Memory Tree — Britta Teckentrup
- M Michael Rosen's Sad Book — Michael Rosen
For teachers and parents
- G Grief in Children: A Handbook for Adults — Atle Dyregrov
- B Beyond the Rainbow Bridge: Nurturing our young children from birth to seven — Various
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