Parent Communication & School Letters
Difficult Conversation Script — A Framework
A framework for the conversation no teacher wants to have — concerns about a child, pushback from parents, raising a sensitive issue. With phrases that work and phrases to avoid.
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Learning objective
Conduct difficult parent conversations using a structured, evidence-informed approach.
About this resource
- Subject: Parent Communication & School Letters
- Type: Fact File
- Grade levels: Kindergarten (ages 4-6, ≈ Reception / Y1), Grade 1 (ages 6-7, ≈ Year 2), Grade 2 (ages 7-8, ≈ Year 3), Grade 3 (ages 8-9, ≈ Year 4), Grade 4 (ages 9-10, ≈ Year 5), Grade 5 (ages 10-11, ≈ Year 6), Grade 6 (ages 11-12, ≈ Year 7)
- Pages: 8
- Date added: 2026-09-24
- Credit: Qualified primary teacher
Books on difficult conversations with parents
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Essential reading
- D Difficult Conversations with Parents — Adam Landy
- D Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most — Douglas Stone et al.
- G Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In — Roger Fisher, William Ury
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