Parent Communication & School Letters
Suspected SEND — The First Conversation
How to raise the possibility of a SEND need with a family for the first time — without diagnosing, without panicking parents, and without backing off when you shouldn't.
Preview
Page count: 9. Print-ready PDF — letter / A4 friendly. Click image to see all pages.
Learning objective
Raise SEND concerns with families in a way that opens conversation rather than shutting it down.
About this resource
- Subject: Parent Communication & School Letters
- Type: Fact File
- Grade levels: Kindergarten (ages 4-6, ≈ Reception / Y1), Grade 1 (ages 6-7, ≈ Year 2), Grade 2 (ages 7-8, ≈ Year 3), Grade 3 (ages 8-9, ≈ Year 4), Grade 4 (ages 9-10, ≈ Year 5), Grade 5 (ages 10-11, ≈ Year 6), Grade 6 (ages 11-12, ≈ Year 7)
- Pages: 9
- Date added: 2026-09-22
- Credit: Qualified primary teacher
Books on parent communication
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For teachers
- D Difficult Conversations with Parents — Adam Landy
- C Connect with Your Students — Rob Plevin
- T The New Teacher's Companion — Holly Forrest
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